What am I doing wrong???

[thesameole]

I know that I have done everything a wife can do to make her husband happy. I am so lonely and so neglected. I just want to be touched and cuddled. NOTHING! I have to come to some chat board just to get my feelings out. I have tried everything. I am attractive and kind. We have only been married for 2 years and I can't imagine how much worse the loneliness with get! What do I do???

[jellybean1]

`married only 2 years and lonely, think you two need to have a serious discussion and find out what the problem is now before it's too late.

[jhurrington]

`a person that loves you always shows that they love and that the truth is always showed in a relationship.

[elyna (deleted)]

`I think it's not as easy. Maybe his way of showing love is different? Maybe he is not open enough to share his heart with you. The other day I just found out my husband lied to me about himself for two whole years. Every little thing also he twist into a lie. Am I stupid or what?

I had a talk with him and he shares that he had this tendacy to lie because it made him feel good about himself. At least he is honest about it with me. Oh well..

[samiam34]

`There is no feeling worst then feeling alone. I agree with the rest of the responses and you have to have a talk with him and let him know how you fee. Being a man I know for a fact we cannot read womens minds..

You have to remember you have to be happy before you can make anyone else happy. Look inside and see what you need and want and explain that to him. I wish you the best of luck and we are here to help.

[sparklersmile]

`I know exactly how u feel.. if u ever want to talk Im here.. feel free to contact me.. I agree with most of the comments. You def should talk to your husband. I know sometimes thats easier said then done. Who knows u might have tried that already.. but I do wish you the best.. I really hope things work out for you!

[nursemisslove]

`I so know how you feel but you guys should talk. I let my marriage suffer like that and found out later that my husband was having an affair and now we are struggling even worse and we just don't connect. I am very lonely also and totally understand. Good luck and I hope things work out for you.

[lovescassandra]

I am about to get married to this wonderful girl. I love her so much that i love cuddling with her, and always physical contact. it does seem that every other day, she wants her space or either not be touched. it is so hard. i have always been a person that loves touch and cuddling. i know how you feel. i wish i can make it so she wants to cuddle and touch more. what does help is, doing random acts of kindness. whenever we do a super fun activity, she is more attached to me emotionally and physically. she loves fun board games, or couples questionaires. check on google for questionaires.

mike